Today I was hit with with a bit of a sledgehammer. I found out that the man I loved very much who broke things off with me because he couldn't handle the commitment and wanted the freedom of being single is dating someone and perhaps has been since shortly after we broke up. Although it has been months and I've had a lot of dates and even a couple of relationships since that guy, it still hit me like a tonne of bricks. The reality is... Grieving sucks. BIG TIME.
There is no easy way to get through it. It's important to acknowledge my feelings and not try to avoid them. But I don't have to do this alone. I'm going to sit up straight, hold my chin up high and go on over to one of my bestie's, where I will happily accept love, hugs, tissues, wine and Settlers of Catan.
And slowly I will move on. I am so blessed to have loads of people who love me, a good job, lots of opportunity and faith in God's love for me. I will survive.
No, I will thrive!
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